We Are Toh's Family: August 2008

Sunday, August 31

What can i say? Nothing at all

I felt so silly to wrote:
Im sorry for causing this misunderstanding.

What i wrote in "She Hates"
1st: Not pin-pointing anyone
2nd:Not causing any harm to anyone for this small issue
3rd: This is my personal Feelings

I had already packed my clothings &
suddenly hubby called & ask me to wait for him to come back,
but i told him , when u're back hm, im not at mummy hse & not at hm.
I off my hp & went out till 5pm+,
Melvin (my bro) came look for me.
he companied till i get hm safety.
tk u mel!

When get hm, MIL asked me where had i went to?
I jus smile & walk straight to my rm.
When i went in, some of my clothes had already unpacked & input into cupboard.
I pack my clothes again.
On my hp, actually wanna ask my bro come & help me tk my stuffs back hm.
Den i received hubby's sms, mummy's sms.
All are so worried of me.

I sit down & rest awhile with tears.
Hubby came back & persuading me not to go back my own hse, he shed tears.
We quarrelled in our own rm.
I told him , im not angry with u.
im angry abt myself for being yuan wang ,
said that im being not nice to said bad abt family members,
being the bad ones to being harms to brotherhood,
being upsets whole family...
but did my column saying anyone?
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hubby told me..
I will stand by u..i know ur characters, u is u ..
no one can say u.
all is misunderstanding..
U're not being baddie to say anything bad abt family members,
nvr bring any harms in ruining him & his bro brotherhood,
nvr upsets Family..
We are all living together happily.
All is misunderstanding.
Do u bear to leave me?
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All are clarified, but y no one say Sorry to me?
Am i very gd to be bully?
Am i deserve to be bully?
:_(
Is pregnant lady like me have to be bully till shed tears?
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Hubby's shed tears, im hurts too.
So i stay put & he unpack all my clothings.
*i tin now not ruining brotherhood but is my r/s with Hubby*
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What more can i say?
Nothing....at all..
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Hubby had went back camp & wont be hm till next friday cos of his courses, he need to stay in.
Me, Cant get to sleep..but will force myself to slp.
Bcos tml senior not coming to work due to her sore-eyes.. @.@
I had to handle myself tml...sure got lots of work plus boss pressure le..
haizzzz...

Actually, hubby love me & dote on me alots.
But due to some issues, he is being sandwiched!
But in the end , due to respect i will give in although it is not my faults.
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Baby Toh tml is 28weeks le...
Another 12weeks to go..
In order not to dong tai qi..affect baby toh
I have to relax & let go.
=)
Baby toh is always with through happy times, sad times...
Im unhappy i will talk to him & i will get better.
He sometimes will gif me a fierce kicks ..hahaha
naughty Ritz? But i Love him.
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::Now baby toh is tossing ard my tummy::
hahaha..
Just received call frm hubby with his gd nitz kiss..
gtg slp lo...
Nitz everyone.
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Tml will be a better Day.
:hubby, i will still love u jus like how much i love baby toh::
Muacks...
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Im being maligned

Today, I cried sadly
bcos im being Maligned.
Blog is for everyone to vent out own true feelings,
own anger, not pointing at anyone or particular anyone.
Im being seriously misunderstood.
My mummy ask me "Not to dong taiqi,relax."
For those who knew me, knew thAt my characters is straight forward.
I dun understand y im being misunderstood.
What i can wrote is only "Im sorry fOr causing this misunderstanding."
But seriously, did i did anything wrong??
I had a quarrel with my hubby,
i said im gg to move back to my own hse to stay.

I had alots of stress in work,with boss, with many issues,
i had own personal feeling, i just only want to vent out in my blog.
Sometimes, whatever u told ur hubby,
they would not understand.
What they wil say is only:
"Dun care them lor."

im grateful that when my feeling is in the mess,
My mummy, aunties, laysee ,Yu er, sarah, yinyan is there for me.
Thank you.

Everytime, im unhappy, i cried,
i will talk to baby Toh & tell him , mummy is sad today.
He sometimes will gif me a kick in my tummy.
:: i know he cares abt me::

I really dun understand what had i done wrong...
can anyone tell me?
Am i wrong in venting my anger in my blog...?

I wanna stay in my mummy hse, dun wanna go back.

** Pls scold me if i really wrong in doing so**

Friday, August 29

New Blog Skin/layouts

:: New Blog Skin/LayOuts ::
Yeah!
Finally my new blog skin/Layouts is out!
All tks to my Lil's Sweetie girl: Serene
All credits to her!
Tks u darling!
i love it so much...hahha
Maybe baby Toh arrive le, u might have to design again lor...
can? =) =P
So, Everyone, pls leave some sweetie words in my Tags...
hehe..

Another issue is ::
Im On Mc at Tues,on leave on wed.
Back to work at Thurs "28/08/08"
u guess what?
My boss, we call him "DA".
He asked me : Michelle , when is ur baby EDD date?
{{ I tot he is so concern so i reply happily: 1st Dec }}
But to my surprise, u will nvr know what he said that made me so angry!!!
Da : "So u are being advise to Tk 16 weeks mathernity Leave , Full. "
Mic : " Im sorry Da! My plan that i had discussed with senior is ,
Im only taking 12Weeks which is 24th nov to 15th Feb. For the pending 4weeks for my 4mth maternity leave , i will come back to work & claims as vacation Leave for 20days which i can spread my days."
DA: "No. U r being adv to tk Full."
Mic: "Da, i do not understand y shld i tk full."
Da : Bcos of work flows.
mic: DA, company have not empoly part-timers yet,thats is y im telling u that i will only tk 12weeks maternity leave & i had given u the date taht i will be back, isnt it easy for u to plan for part-timers?
Da:No. u r being adv to tk Full.
++++ i cannot Tahan Anymore,so i answer him back ++++
Mic: "As what i had said, i will only tk 12weeks, as for ur adv for 16weeks full, i will reconsider. So, now i will go back to my wrkplace . tk u."

:: I called Hr & tell them this issue, & they approved me to tk 12Weeks & back to work at 15/02/09 & the pending 4weeks which is only 20days can claims throughout the 1 yr. ::
But, Da request for a meeting with Hr Assistant manager, Our general manager, my senior & me.
Im so angry lo...
Always so many issues , always gif me hardtime...
haizz..but i already told HR that if there is no mutual agreement btw Da & me, i will complains to MOM.

^V^ Wish me gd Luck On next Wed ^V^

Wednesday, August 27

Pretty Ashly done this for me::
view her blog at
www.quaintstyle.blogspot.com

A Stunning set customize for mummy to be Michelle…

Feel the Wind as the Beautiful butterflies dance around …

Tuesday, August 26

Today, im sick.
so stayed at hm & On Mc.
Tml gg down to HDB to sign lease of agreement with hubby.
Im getting excited bcos im counting down to
Baby toh arrival le...
left 13weeks 6 days...
it's might seem still very far..
but to me is wow! left only 13weeks ley...
hahha..
baby Toh had been tossing here & there u know? hahha..
My lil active abby Toh!
:Love my hubby & baby muchy!!1::
=) im a happy , blissful wifey & mummy..

Saturday, August 23

:: Friday :: Dinner time at siloso beach : Barnacles

Went to dinner at siloso beach
with laysee & williams .

didnt really tk any of the dishes photos cos
we too busy le...
so hungry ytd...
hahha
This the lastest pics of me:
Im so chubby ritzz!
=)
haha..

Friday, August 22

Yipee! yayayyayaya!!!

Im Entitled 14Weeks maternity Leave lo!!

Woohoo! Ytd alots of my frens called me & told me this gd news...!

hahahahha

Im really very happY!

Later gg to sentosa eat dinner with my seniors & the payee...!

Will load photos tml ba...

GD friday!!!!

I love thiS friday very very very muchy!!!

Qualifying date for enhanced M&P Package backdated to Aug 17

SINGAPORE : Expectant mothers whose babies are due before 1 January 2009 will still get to enjoy the Baby Bonus and incentive measures in the enhanced Marriage and Parenthood (M&P) Package, announced by Prime Minister Lee Hsien Loong in his National Day Rally Speech.

This is because the qualifying date has been backdated to August 17, in response to appeals from expectant mothers and fathers. The Baby Bonus and other measures in the enhanced Marriage and Parenthood Package was originally slated to kick off in January next year. But feedback from parents whose babies are due before the New Year sparked the revision. Tan Sushan, founder of Financial Women's Association of Singapore, said: "They've listened. This also means that they can't always get it right (the) first time, but they are listening, they are reacting. It's a positive stand. I would say, keep it coming." Mothers who had originally wanted to petition to the government to register their displeasure, were happy with the move. 25-year-old Felicia Yang, who is expecting her first child, said: "We're all having our first, so with this incentive, we'd get over this first one first, and I think most of us will be thinking of having our second kid." So all expectant mothers will be entitled to a host of tax benefits and child-related perks with immediate effect. Working mothers can now enjoy the enhanced Baby Bonus of S$4,000 for the first and second child, and S$6,000 for the third and fourth. Other perks include the immediate start of their four-month paid maternity leave, and six-day paid childcare leave per year. One person commented: "I think that would be an excellent move, otherwise they would have annoyed those mothers who are about to give birth, and I would be very sore if I were a mother about to give birth. So, I'm glad they shifted it to August 17." Working mums will benefit from the generous tax benefits in the package. Take for example a working mother who earns S$100,000 a year and has two children. Under the existing tax scheme, she will enjoy S$24,000 in child tax relief and working mother's child relief. Under the new scheme, her total child relief would go up by about 80 per cent to S$43,000, which could be used to offset her earned income for tax purposes. But even with the benefits now backdated, not everyone is convinced that this will mean a baby boom, anytime soon. One person said: "I'm sure they're not going to just change their entire family plans just because of this, but yes, maybe it will make them reconsider." Another noted: "Those who are on borderline would be incentivised. It means they may already be thinking about it. And this would be a good bonus for them. But for those who are quite far away from those thoughts, it might not move them that much, I think." Meanwhile, the 50 per cent co-funding for assisted reproduction technology treatment will also take effect from August 17. The subsidy was to be implemented in September. The actual payment of the enhanced Baby Bonus and subsidies will only be made after the necessary legislative and administrative changes are completed. - CNA/ms What more can be done to get Singaporeans pro-creating? Give us your views at www.channelnewsasia.com/maybebaby.

Thursday, August 21

: wah::

Wah! Both are my Fav canned food..
& guess hwta the price is so Ex!!!
hmmm..
last time ard $1.25 to $1.80.
=(
not gg to buy anymore...
humph!!!!

:; Baby Toh @ 24Weeks 4Days ::

Actually quite sad that im not qualify for 16week maternity leave..

hahha..

Cos my EDD is 1st Dec 08.

haha

But nvm, next 3yr den have 2nd baby.

Happy Thursday to all

Sunday, August 17

TiAmo ( MV ) - 炎亞綸 + 劉力揚

劉力揚 - 眼淚笑了

劉力揚 - 眼淚笑了[Official MV w/Lyrics]

比想象中更痛你真的沒回頭
我命令眼淚不許失控
回憶不跟你走都擠在我心中
我就有責任讓它值得被珍重
*謝謝你曾讓我難過謝謝我沒有想太多
當愛情左盼右顧的時候
我眼淚都笑了誰還想哭呢
再勇敢的站著找回光和熱
面對你的時候我不會捨不得
因爲你已是過客
因爲路有些曲折*
是美的
心碎成了沙漠就快開鑿綠洲
我沒有時間不知所措
你溫柔的雙手本就不屬於我
又何必在乎它以後屬於誰呢
REPEAT *
我眼淚都笑了誰還會哭呢
來不及完美的就唱首驪歌
想起你的時候我不是卑微的
反而我沒有遺憾
因爲我已愛過你
深深的

劉力揚我就是這樣

:: Baby toh @ 25 Weeks ::

Baby toh is 25Weeks le.
Moving ard my tummy..
=) but i love him
next appointment is at
12th Sep 2008

Tml will be a very busy day & boring day bcos
It's Monday!
hahaha

Today, i stayed at hm for the whole day.
I love sunday to be at hm & just slp slp slp...

I watched Xiao Zhu Lou zhi Xiang ,
Show Concert DVDs.
Wow! he really a superstar..
His concert is so successful.
He's bee through a hardship b4 he made it to be SUPERSTAR.
U all shld go & buy & watch urself.
Xiao zhu Jia you!
Ur dancing is wow!WOw! WOW!

:: Gd nitz everyone! ::

Saturday 16/08/08

:: Saturday :: 16/08/08 ::
Ytd went to see dr ang bcos ,
ytd i found some blood spots on my undies.
im so afraid & call dr ang to have a check up on sat.
early 9am, hubby compnay me to the clinic , however
my appointment actually is on 27/08/08 , so im an extra appointment t4 i waited until 11am.
=)
Dr ang do a test below, which will be send to lab.
the test cost S$35, which take 1 week.

Dr ang told me that there are 4 points that will led to blood spots leaking: -
1. Placenta Low?
(no, im not)
2. i 4get what is the point le.
(will ask Dr ang again)
3. Premature Labour?
(No, im not)
4. Unknown cases?
(yes!)
No explanation , t4 have to wait for the result after tested.

See, my Baby toh is sleeping soundly in my tummy,
his face is facing internally in my tummy.
so cute right?
Last appointment, his face is facing downward of my left side.
SO cutie!
No wonder he have been moving so actively nowsaday.
=)
Baby toh is 730g now.
Another 15weeks to go...
*im getting excited*

Afternoon 4pm, Hubby & me went to
Baby Fair at Takashimaya.
U can see lots of pregnant mummy & daddy there too.
Hubby & me bought the electronic Bottles stertillier at special price of S$168 which actually price is S$250.
Cheap cheap!
*see below photos for more details*

After shopping , we went to Din tai Fung for dinner.
Hubby ordered a plate of prawn fried rice,red pasta buns,shimps dumpling.
so nice! i will go back to eat again!

Gg back to CWp to find Hubby's fren :They called him " Ba lou"
We went to Kiddy palace & bought a Combi stroller.
In kiddy palace, no discount will be given to any purchase of stroller even though u have the kiddy palace card.
But ba lou is the staff there, t4 we have 10% off.
The cost price is S$239, so after discount is S$215++
So happy that hubby is enjoying himself buying baby toh stuffs.
haha..Love him so muchy!